Esperanza Ramirez

About

After a long time doing this, the thing I am surest of is that almost nobody understands their own motives at the point they walk in. Both the person who did it and the person who found out arrive carrying a story that turns out to be incomplete. An affair is almost never really about what it appears to be about on the surface, which is not an excuse and does not reduce the harm, but it does change what has to be addressed. We go after the actual mechanism rather than the headline. That is uncomfortable, and it is the only route to anything that lasts. I stepped away into administration for a while and returned because this kind of conversation is what I am for. Managing a service is not the same as sitting with two people in real difficulty. If you want to understand what actually happened, get in touch.