Zainab Rahman

About

You are probably here because something between you and someone important has gone quiet, or sharp, or both, and the ordinary repairs are no longer working. That is a common point to arrive at and a good point to do something about. A relationship does not usually fail dramatically; it erodes through a long series of small unrepaired moments that individually seemed too minor to raise. We go and find those moments. It is less dramatic than people expect and a lot more effective than another large conversation about the state of things. Alongside my practice I supervise newer clinicians, and the thing I most often point out is that the big conversation is rarely where the change happens. The small ones are. If the ordinary repairs have stopped working, get in touch. We work backwards through the small ones until the quiet or the sharpness has an explanation. That is usually quicker than people fear.