Sofia Gonzalez

About

You might be here because something you assumed was settled has turned out not to be, and you are finding that unsettling in a way you did not anticipate. That reaction is extremely common and it says nothing at all about whether the realization is correct. Late-arriving questions about sexual identity are more frequent than public conversation suggests, and they often surface after a significant change in circumstances rather than out of nowhere. We look at what has shifted and what it means, without any assumption that a conclusion is required. Plenty of people find the urgency drops a lot once the question is being held by two people instead of one. I came to this from a wholly different line of work and came to this later than most, so I have some feeling for discovering something about yourself well after you were supposed to be finished. If that is where you are, get in touch.