Raj Zhang

About

Here is the single most useful thing I tell new clients: conflict is not the enemy, silence is. Most of the pairs I meet are not fighting too much; they are saying far too little, to each other and about themselves. I work with adults who want their most important relationship to feel less like a standoff and more like a team effort. Sometimes that means sessions together, sometimes it means solo work on your own half of the pattern; both count, and both move things. I grew up as the family peacemaker, the kid reading the room before I could read much else, and it turns out that was early training for exactly this job. With me you get plain language, fair refereeing, and no sides taken, ever. If the same argument keeps arriving at your door in new outfits, get in touch. One honest hour is a very decent start.