John Okonkwo

About

People reach out to me at the moment a pattern becomes undeniable: the third partner in a row who ended up feeling like a stranger, the same exit made through a different door. Once you have seen it, you cannot unsee it, and that is exactly the right time to call. Attachment patterns run our closest connections from backstage, and my job is to bring them out where you can finally work with them directly. Part of my week goes to training newer therapists, and explaining this craft to sharp trainees keeps my own thinking rigorous and my methods current. With clients I am efficient without being cold: we identify the pattern, understand what built it, and then practice something better in your real life in real time. I am direct, organized, and really invested in results you can feel in months rather than years. If the pattern has announced itself, do not wait around for a fourth demonstration. Write to me.