Hiroshi Zhang

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I will admit the awkward bit: it is oddly difficult to ask for help with a decision, because it feels like conceding that you cannot run your own life. People manage far worse things without hesitation and then stall at the door over something like this. There is nothing weak about it. Being at a crossroads is exactly the kind of problem that improves with a second mind in the room, and doing it alone is a preference rather than a virtue. We take the decision apart into its actual components and work through them in order. You keep every bit of the authority; I supply the questions you have been carefully not asking yourself. Caregiving surrounded me growing up, where the operating assumption was that competent people cope quietly. It took me a long while to notice how much that costs. If the door is where you have stalled, get in touch.